I survived 2 1/2 months....
Tik tok tik tok.....October almost gone and November is just around the corner to step in. Phewww....I pula sedang berkira-kira x lama lagi masa utk cross the continents and say Hi to an equatorial climate...Walla....yup I had survived the test 2 1/2 months away from the beloved ones. Time flies when you need to juggle and meet up with the deadlines! Plus, you have a bunch of great friends...
Previous post, I ada cakap nak share I punya tips bagaimana nak melalui detik2 'berseorangan' ini..I bet that there are supermoms who experience similar situation like mine too. Tapi ini kaedah-kaedah yang 'berjaya' membuatkan I rasa ok:
1. Skyping everyday...hehehehe....housemates and friends semua dah acknowledge that between 1-2.30 pm is my skyping time with the loved ones...semenjak jam moved 1 hour backward, my skyping hours are between 12.00- 1.30pm.
2. Stay positive. Mind over body.....bunyi mcm warrior laa sgt kan. Tapi perlu kot...aheeemmm...
3. Shopping...haaa ini bukan shopping diri sendiri sgt. Asal shopping je, barang diorng...asal barang diorng je I shopping...jadi beg tu dah penuh dgn brg2 diorng..dari Optimus Prime, Elmo sampai laa tiang gol pun I bawa balik!!
4. Doa..dan doa...supaya Allah berikan kekuatan mental dan fizikal....
5. Appreciation. Always appreciate what your other half did for you and your kids...He is my hero :)
6. Just enjoy your time......me time......
7. Avoid the guilty feelings because you are not there....payah bab ni...bukan nak cakap x perlu rasa bersalah..tapi perlu focus apa yg perlu dilakukan..at e end of the day, apa yg I buat adalah utk diorng juga (ini mcm kata-kata nak bagi sedap hati jugak sebenarnya..supaya tak terjeremus dalam lembah emosi..hohoho)..
Dilema yang ramai ibu2 juga hadapi...situasi je berbeza...cikgu-cikgu yg PJJ contohnya...or ibu2 yang terpaksa bekerja outstation berbulan2 demi mencari rezeki...cuma in my case, in need to finish what I have started...huhuhu...Ameen...
Oraits, uols.....till then.....,
Previous post, I ada cakap nak share I punya tips bagaimana nak melalui detik2 'berseorangan' ini..I bet that there are supermoms who experience similar situation like mine too. Tapi ini kaedah-kaedah yang 'berjaya' membuatkan I rasa ok:
1. Skyping everyday...hehehehe....housemates and friends semua dah acknowledge that between 1-2.30 pm is my skyping time with the loved ones...semenjak jam moved 1 hour backward, my skyping hours are between 12.00- 1.30pm.
2. Stay positive. Mind over body.....bunyi mcm warrior laa sgt kan. Tapi perlu kot...aheeemmm...
3. Shopping...haaa ini bukan shopping diri sendiri sgt. Asal shopping je, barang diorng...asal barang diorng je I shopping...jadi beg tu dah penuh dgn brg2 diorng..dari Optimus Prime, Elmo sampai laa tiang gol pun I bawa balik!!
4. Doa..dan doa...supaya Allah berikan kekuatan mental dan fizikal....
5. Appreciation. Always appreciate what your other half did for you and your kids...He is my hero :)
6. Just enjoy your time......me time......
7. Avoid the guilty feelings because you are not there....payah bab ni...bukan nak cakap x perlu rasa bersalah..tapi perlu focus apa yg perlu dilakukan..at e end of the day, apa yg I buat adalah utk diorng juga (ini mcm kata-kata nak bagi sedap hati jugak sebenarnya..supaya tak terjeremus dalam lembah emosi..hohoho)..
Dilema yang ramai ibu2 juga hadapi...situasi je berbeza...cikgu-cikgu yg PJJ contohnya...or ibu2 yang terpaksa bekerja outstation berbulan2 demi mencari rezeki...cuma in my case, in need to finish what I have started...huhuhu...Ameen...
Oraits, uols.....till then.....,
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Juga utk Bad...coz it must be very hard for both of you in this situation. I wouldn't say i understand, because I don't. But i wish you all the best dan cepat2 menggapai impian supaya dapat balik ke pangkuan org2 tersayang :)
yup..unless we are in that shoes..dulu aku pun mcm hairan dan pelik bila tengok kawan2 yg situasi mcm ni jugak..skrng bila in that shoes...ok..kena gak redah...